How to Ask a Girl to Be Your Girlfriend

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It was easy back in elementary school. All you needed was a note which read "Do you want to be my girlfriend? Check yes or no," and a friend to pass it to the girl of your choosing. There is a little more to it now that you are all grown up. However you don't need to be a love expert to know how to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. You just need a little planning, some confidence and the right girl.

1 

Figure out if she likes you. There are several signs to tell if a girl likes you. See if any of the following apply to you.

* She makes plans to do things with you months in advance. For example, you see a trailer for a movie coming out this summer and she says, "We should go see that when it comes out."
*She sits close to you and often touches your hand or arm as she talks to you.
*She gives you frequent eye contact.
*She has introduced you to her friends and family. Most girls won't bother doing this if they don't think you are going to be around long.

These signs are not foolproof. There is always a risk in asking a girl to be your girlfriend that she will not feel the same way. However, if you never take risks, you will miss out on the best things in life.

2

Get in good with her friends. Many girls look to their friends for approval of the boys they date. Get them on your side and half the battle is won. To be honest, the easiest way to get on their good side is just to treat her really well. Her friends love her and want her to be with someone who recognizes how great she is.

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3

Practice what you are going to say. You don't have to be super poetic or Mr. suave to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. You just need to be sincere. A simple "I have a lot of fun with you and I would be honored to call you my girlfriend," works great. The exact wording isn't important, but you will want to come up with a general idea so that you don't freeze up when the moment comes.

4

Look your best. You don't need to rent a tux, but take time to shave, put on cologne, pop a few breath mints, etc. Remember, you are trying to convince her to forsake all other men for you. You may as well make it worth her while.

5

Find a romantic spot. This isn't a conversation that you want to have during halftime or during dinner at Applebees. Instead, find a nice spot at the beach, in the mountains, at a park, etc. where the two of you can be alone and the scenery can set the mood.

6

Be confident. Girls love boys who are confident (without being cocky). Don't say, "You probably don't want to, but I was wondering if you want to be my girlfriend." Instead, ask her the question in a straightforward manner that assumes that her answer will be yes.

7

Don't stress out about it! Whatever happens, you will be OK. If she says yes, then great! If not, I promise that you will live to love another day. She may not fully appreciate the wonderfulness that is you, but I promise that someone else out there will. You just need to keep looking.